‘Those vegans’ and being a nonvegan advocate

chick-1890774_960_720There’s a perception of veganism, and of many vegans too, as vociferous and/or challenging. We’ve all seen comments that go, ‘thank goodness you’re not one of those vegans’ and no doubt this is intended as a compliment by those who are not vegan themselves.

This ‘compliment’ sits alongside a nonvegan perception of themselves as passive, just quietly minding their own business, not wanting to be challenged about their ‘choices’ in the same way that they consider themselves to be tolerant of the ‘choices’ of others.

I’ve seen posts shared humbly, even apologetically by vegans, aware they will be viewed by those who aren’t vegan, knowing that they are likely to be subjected to some form of retaliation for disturbing the tranquillity.

And it occurs to me that although not being vegan is the default state for the vast majority of us, it is VERY far from being a passive state; an extremely long way from minding one’s own business, and in fact, is as lacking in tolerance for other sentient individuals as it’s possible to be, despite the mantra ‘live and let live’ making a frequent appearance.

Advocating harm

So it seems to me that those who are not vegan are every bit as much ‘advocates’ as any vegan is; the obvious difference being that they advocate harming animals. What’s more, when we are not vegan, we advocate persistently, on a daily basis, with almost every purchase we make; we advocate aggressively, flaunting our violence everywhere we go, for all to see.

We advocate openly and unrepentantly in supermarkets, browsing the bloodied and dismembered remains in the chill of the mortuary aisles, loading our trolleys with dead flesh, openly gathering products made from the milk that mothers made for the infants we took from them and killed; remorselessly picking up eggs from gentle little birds whose entire bleak existence was spent toiling abjectly in a body selectively bred for our use.

We share callous images of our victims’ corpses and secretions on our plates; we delight in images of flayed skin – from owners whose species we do not even know – admiring them, calling them ‘clothes’ and ‘accessories’.

Through our advocacy of harm, we reassure ourselves and each other that we’re behaving in socially acceptable ways, conforming to the expectations of our peers and of society. Through our actions as consumers, we pump cash into the industries that deal death and destruction on our behalf, ensuring that incarceration, gore and torment remain lucrative business opportunities for us to return to day after day.

In denial

This all would be heart breaking enough, were it not for the ultimate and deeply tragic irony; almost every single one of us claims to care about animals and is outraged to hear of their being harmed; is utterly appalled by injustice and oppression inflicted on vulnerable individuals who are powerless to defend themselves.

And then it just gets worse.

When we are not vegan, almost every single one of us would be repulsed, horrified and sickened … by the actions that WE OURSELVES are actively participating in and promoting.

Truth needs no disguise

And this is all that ‘those vegans’ are seeking to do. They’re not trying to offend, not trying to change the thoughts of those who advocate nonveganism. No, they’re simply trying to make each advocate of nonveganism aware that what they’re doing goes against their OWN deeply held code of conduct.

On the day each of us finally opens our eyes to the consequences of our actions, all we need to decide is whether to really become the person we always thought we were. The only way we can do that is by being vegan. Once we do that, I wonder how many of us will consider it a compliment to be told we’re not one of ‘those vegans’?

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13 Responses to ‘Those vegans’ and being a nonvegan advocate

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  3. Coleen Tew says:

    Thank you so much for this blog- I appreciate every word that you have written.
    I am probably one of those gentle vegans- although I don’t sugar coat anything any more. The older I get, the less patient I have become. Now, when people ask me why I am vegan, I preface by asking “do you really want to know?”, because I want them to understand the horrible truth with an open mind.( although sometimes I want to tie people to a chair and make them watch Earthlings and Meet Your Meat.) The hardest thing for non vegans to understand or truly grasp is the personhood of all animals- they still think of them as “things”, or, because they aren’t human, as lesser.

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  5. cushpigsmum says:

    I’m definitely ‘one of those vegans’ and proud of it. Around me, nobody gets to feel good about their choice to cause pain and suffering to other creatures, and I couldn’t care less if they feel hurt, offended and judged by me. They are doing a wicked thing and need, like we vegans all did, to realise this, face it and stop.

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  6. moniqueboutot says:

    I have shared on my Facebook page with those words:
    “I have been accused of being one of “those vegans”, even if I have tried so gently, so so very gently to educate, to open eyes. I have been thanked by some friends, some even credited me for helping them open their eyes. I have provided encouragement, recipes, advice, along with trying to give some comforting words to fellow vegans who were accused of not being enough one of “those vegans”. And I am tired. Very very tired. Bone tired of the incomprehension, of the way our kindness is misjudged. An article like this one is such a treat! Meat eaters, animal users do not realize that they are advocating even more than vegans do. They have the force of the majority with them, but they don’t realize that they are advocating for cruelty, while we advocate for kindness.
    Please read and thank you for opening your mind, your heart.”
    Thank YOU for writing this beautifully felt and crystal clear article!

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  7. proudwomon says:

    thankful to have found your blog so long ago – i am proud to be one of ‘those vegans’!!!!

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  8. barblarue says:

    Reblogged this on Mercy for all Animals and commented:
    Had to share this advocate’s blog, which speaks so directly about what vegans face and how we are perceived, as well as how non-vegans do in fact make very bold statements each day as well. I admit to being a vegan who treads carefully, knowing that even then I will face backlash and defensiveness from friends and family. This is an excellent post.

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  9. Reblogged this on billziegler1947 and commented:
    An Elephant in the Room is a coherent and valuable resource for vegans who join in solidarity with all sentient beings on this shared planet. We speak a truth that vanquishes denial — one argument at a time.
    Look into the eyes of the billions sentenced to death for the crime of being edible, for sating crazy appetites, for sturdy hide, the whim of fashion, for savvy consumers, enterprising marketers and future futures markets.
    Examine the banner at the top of this blog. Look into the those five eyes and realize that you gaze into a complex ocular system that arose during the Cambrian explosion. When you look into the eyes of a fellow sentient being you are looking at a fellow soul.

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  10. Thank you for arguing so convincingly, accurately and clearly. Every vegan reading this article has found themselves the brunt of such condescension, some just more often than others. I am going to reblog this to my own blog https://billziegler1947.com/category/vegan/ on “The Vegan Anarchist https://www.facebook.com/thevegananarchist/
    There is a difference between being “nice” and being “kind.”

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    • Many thanks for your positive feedback and thanks too for considering my words to be worth sharing.

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      • It is my privilege to read “An Elephant in the Room” with the enthusiasm it deserves. Veganism, a word not even recognized as a word by the WordPress spell checker, is such an interlocking set of principles that fit together seamlessly — each principle supports every other principle, and without recourse to denial as a strength. We may be outnumbered by dollars, consumers and the conventional wisdom, but we have a clear and solid grasp on truth and beauty — not a bad tradeoff.

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